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    <description>Formulating thoughts to move a bit forward... perhaps...</description>
    <pubDate>Thu, 07 May 2026 14:16:01 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>They don&#39;t have power over your emotions they only have needs</title>
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      <description>&lt;![CDATA[We are our emotions. Who can change them has power on us for good, or bad, for wanting it or not. This includes us. It isn&#39;t possible to change our own emotions for long by pure will. We need to understand why those emotions arises from which need.&#xA;&#xA;Identifying the needs in ourselves as well as in others is how you can move forward.&#xA;&#xA;&lt;!-- &#xA;https://www.psychologies.com/Regards-de-psys/Empathie-sympathie-et-compassion-quelles-differences&#xA; --  #lifemantra]]&gt;</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are our emotions. Who can change them has power on us for good, or bad, for wanting it or not. This includes us. It isn&#39;t possible to change our own emotions for long by pure will. We need to understand why those emotions arises from which need.</p>

<p>Identifying the needs in ourselves as well as in others is how you can move forward.</p>



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      <pubDate>Sat, 02 Mar 2024 06:30:54 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>Learning in a year more than what could be done in a year</title>
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      <description>&lt;![CDATA[Yes, learn from others. One hasn&#39;t to do all mistakes themselves. Learn from those who did. &#xA;&#xA;lifemantra]]&gt;</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, learn from others. One hasn&#39;t to do all mistakes themselves. Learn from those who did.</p>

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      <pubDate>Sat, 04 Nov 2023 21:02:11 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>Know what is needed, not what has to be done</title>
      <link>https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/know-what-is-needed-not-what-has-to-be-done</link>
      <description>&lt;![CDATA[By focusing on what is needed, you are able to adapt and accept tradeoffs and others may respond to your need in a way your didn&#39;t anticipated. &#xA;&#xA;lifemantra]]&gt;</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By focusing on what is needed, you are able to adapt and accept tradeoffs and others may respond to your need in a way your didn&#39;t anticipated.</p>

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      <pubDate>Sun, 07 May 2023 20:07:22 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>Time is only a factor</title>
      <link>https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/time-is-only-a-factor</link>
      <description>&lt;![CDATA[If you don&#39;t have a deadline or a meeting, you are free and not in any rush. It doesn&#39;t mean the task can take forever, only that you choose what and until when.&#xA;&#xA;lifemantra]]&gt;</description>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you don&#39;t have a deadline or a meeting, you are free and not in any rush. It doesn&#39;t mean the task can take forever, only that you choose what and until when.</p>

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      <pubDate>Sat, 08 Apr 2023 19:40:52 +0000</pubDate>
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