toddler &mdash; Life as I understand it https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/tag:toddler Formulating thoughts to move a bit forward... perhaps... Wed, 24 Jun 2026 00:34:31 +0000 Their context is unknown to you https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/their-context-is-unknown-to-you <![CDATA[Two minutes or two days could be confounded. When they say no, you don't to what most of the time. To the maner, to the actor, to the weather, to ... Don't ignore totally a no, but don't be offended too much. #survival #toddler]]> Two minutes or two days could be confounded.

When they say no, you don't to what most of the time. To the maner, to the actor, to the weather, to ... Don't ignore totally a no, but don't be offended too much.

#survival #toddler

]]> https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/their-context-is-unknown-to-you Sat, 08 Apr 2023 19:46:23 +0000 Chat with them, but also tell them that those are no word https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/chat-with-them-but-also-tell-them-that-those-are-no-word <![CDATA[Facing babbles in discussion is exhausting. You are making more than two sides of the communication: you are making your side, then you guess the other side, meaning that you make two or three proposals. It's important to chat with them. No question. Just recognize this as something which could be exhausting. If it is the case, explain, and focus on what matters more for you. #survival #toddler]]> Facing babbles in discussion is exhausting. You are making more than two sides of the communication: you are making your side, then you guess the other side, meaning that you make two or three proposals.

It's important to chat with them. No question. Just recognize this as something which could be exhausting. If it is the case, explain, and focus on what matters more for you.

#survival #toddler

]]> https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/chat-with-them-but-also-tell-them-that-those-are-no-word Sat, 08 Apr 2023 19:45:59 +0000 Face the conflict, don't get trapped https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/face-the-conflict-dont-get-trapped <![CDATA[When they are playing by themselves, you may have some time for yourself. If you move too much they may think of you and come or ask something. This could be seen as a trap: if you move then you are not quiet anymore. If you can't do what you want or like while being quiet, then move. Face the trap, they have to learn to see you without needing you. #survival #toddler]]> When they are playing by themselves, you may have some time for yourself. If you move too much they may think of you and come or ask something. This could be seen as a trap: if you move then you are not quiet anymore. If you can't do what you want or like while being quiet, then move. Face the trap, they have to learn to see you without needing you.

#survival #toddler

]]> https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/face-the-conflict-dont-get-trapped Sat, 08 Apr 2023 19:45:32 +0000 Forcing things to make sense doesn't add sense https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/forcing-things-to-make-sense-doesnt-add-sense <![CDATA[Most of the time, there isn't any logic. They could want to eat and throw the food away at the same time. And cry for help to resolve those needs. You can only satisfy one. If it continues, it's not your fault, they don't know itself what is needed now. They may already have changed their mind by the way. And yet again. #survival #toddler]]> Most of the time, there isn't any logic. They could want to eat and throw the food away at the same time. And cry for help to resolve those needs. You can only satisfy one. If it continues, it's not your fault, they don't know itself what is needed now. They may already have changed their mind by the way. And yet again.

#survival #toddler

]]> https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/forcing-things-to-make-sense-doesnt-add-sense Sat, 08 Apr 2023 19:43:28 +0000 They will not let themselves die https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/they-will-not-let-themselves-die <![CDATA[If they don't want to eat. Don't fight. Of course, after several refused meals, go to hospital. If they don't eat, there's a problem somewhere or they don't need to eat. #survival #toddler]]> If they don't want to eat. Don't fight. Of course, after several refused meals, go to hospital. If they don't eat, there's a problem somewhere or they don't need to eat.

#survival #toddler

]]> https://write.outer.tf/life-as-i-understand-it/they-will-not-let-themselves-die Sat, 08 Apr 2023 19:39:21 +0000